Yo guys,
In the light of the recent animosity, I figured most of us that were not involved prefer to talk about the June holidays rather than dwell on resentment started by people who need to go to church. But that's besides the point.
For the working community, the June holidays will be a much needed breather away from the office politics. For the studying people, including me, this represents the only chance for me to rest before the crucial exams.
Ideally, I would have wanted to go far away.
Realistically, there's only one place to go, Malaysia truly Asia. Of course not Tioman again, probably Redang or some Island?
So if those that are game, give some suggestions and its time to start and plan. One month before the holidays is the best time to book. 4 Days 3 Nights will be sufficient.
Alternatively, camping at one of the nearby islands such as Ubin or something will be fun too! (St. John anyone??)
That one 3 Days 2 Nights will be sufficient... Eat bread, Canned food, hotdogs.. Bbq, fishing, Tent, games, cycling, testimonies, sermons, bible sharing, confessions and my favourite "truth" or dare hahaha..
Btw I thought of organising another 11 a side, this time with the Vietnamese in my school. They are not as gd as the previous opponents, but stronger than us.. June will be the tentative date too.. So just let me know the response..
But if by mid-may nothing is confirmed I'll make my own plans.
(ps. talen pls call zero goals along)
God Bless.
alonso
Monday, April 28, 2008
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Following up..
Though I do not want to argue with you, I still want to say never did I doubt your committment to the clique and to the soccer sessions right down to the organising. You are one of the responsible peeps around and I am grateful and appreciative to you for that.
I am not your best of friends but some truths won't hurt. What I want to put accross is that the current way of organising, calling the primary people will work only if you ask early (& everyone responds to you early, which of cos needs everyone cooporation). Only then you are able to ask other pple if you feel that you need the numbers and at the same time sparing a thought for their feelings. I do not really care who u call now cos I jus treat the session purely to play football but at least have a decent number with decent people to make it a good game. Since you all do not respect how I feel abt some pple, then pls kindly do not expect me to keep giving in. Good if u understand, never mind if you do not. (If you all can tolerate pple bring in fags into the field of play which may end up hurting you, so be it. )
The reason I wrote those numbers at the back of the notebooks and befriend them while playing soccer becos I knw we need them every now & then but I long realised the other organisers are not calling them. As i explained to Amanda (someone whom I respect as well), the current pple in her list won't sustain the sessions.
Never doubted you, you have done your job but certainly you can do better. If you are oblivous to the suggestions so be it but then if your ears and heart is open, we can discuss.
In any which case, you can also forget abt this whole episode and just simply tell me the time for soccer every week, together with who is playing. I believe it is in my own very right to decide whether to come or not.
Hope this helps ur resentment, if it do not, then you can still curse me if you want cos u are doing that alrdy anyway.
P/S: I am not blaming Kesuma nor anyone for not coming so please do not assume as well.
Thanks
BH
I am not your best of friends but some truths won't hurt. What I want to put accross is that the current way of organising, calling the primary people will work only if you ask early (& everyone responds to you early, which of cos needs everyone cooporation). Only then you are able to ask other pple if you feel that you need the numbers and at the same time sparing a thought for their feelings. I do not really care who u call now cos I jus treat the session purely to play football but at least have a decent number with decent people to make it a good game. Since you all do not respect how I feel abt some pple, then pls kindly do not expect me to keep giving in. Good if u understand, never mind if you do not. (If you all can tolerate pple bring in fags into the field of play which may end up hurting you, so be it. )
The reason I wrote those numbers at the back of the notebooks and befriend them while playing soccer becos I knw we need them every now & then but I long realised the other organisers are not calling them. As i explained to Amanda (someone whom I respect as well), the current pple in her list won't sustain the sessions.
Never doubted you, you have done your job but certainly you can do better. If you are oblivous to the suggestions so be it but then if your ears and heart is open, we can discuss.
In any which case, you can also forget abt this whole episode and just simply tell me the time for soccer every week, together with who is playing. I believe it is in my own very right to decide whether to come or not.
Hope this helps ur resentment, if it do not, then you can still curse me if you want cos u are doing that alrdy anyway.
P/S: I am not blaming Kesuma nor anyone for not coming so please do not assume as well.
Thanks
BH
I knw I am 24
Excatly I knw that we are 24 so i do not wish to say more. You are entitled to yor opinions and I am entitled to mine and you can think of me as what you like. I do not want to argue any further as I said it doesn't matter to me anymore. If you have an issue, you can call me to thrash things out but I knw u wldn't anyway. What I wrote earlier on is in general and is not targeted at anyone particularly. I still love my frens from Anderson.
Please still sms me for soccer together wif who is playing, so that it will be one sms from u and to u.
Thanks
Please still sms me for soccer together wif who is playing, so that it will be one sms from u and to u.
Thanks
You are already 24 years old... Do I really need to remind you?
Hello…
As some of you may know, it’s been a long long time since I started organizing soccer.
I thought what happened in the past will never happen again. But it happened.
And it has to be ME to kana this kind of Kangtao.
Haha… and you all must have read the post below. Alas I should have type my post earlier.
Never mind. I guess whatever happen on 20 April 2008 is not really anybody’s fault. (Just being nice here)…
FIRSTLY, LET ME TELL YOU GUYS THE REAL REASON OF GIVING EVERYONE THE CHANCE TO ORGANISE SOCCER.
I BELIEVE IT IS TO LET EVERYONE, LIKE MENDI, HAVE A TASTE OF WHAT ORGANISING SOCCER IS AND HOW HARD IT IS. THEREFORE, EVERYONE WILL HOPEFULLY KEEP THEIR PROMISE IF THEY SAID THEY ARE COMING.
Let me just Clarify the situation with all of you.
I just got the book today as of 20 April 2008. You cannot blame me that I did not take initiative and I just realize there are others that were stated behind.
And I always though Chang Bo is of HQ friends. I have no idea when did he become your friend. And the organizer before me did not tell me anything.
And with regards to the priorities, PLS UNDERSTAND THAT I DID CALL ALL THE PRIMARY PPLE FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For that I understand your feud with MQ, so I did not include MQ and his friends in the Primary pple. They are always my secondary priorities. PLS DO NOT ASSUME!
The problem with being organizer is that you do not know what is the optimum number of soccer players to call. YOU THINK WE ARE A CLUB AR? WHEN CALL UPON, U THINK EVERYONE WILL COME. You just ASSUME THAT I DID NOT DO MY JOB WELL. AS FOR YOUR INFO, I did ask HQ to ask his friends on Saturday. It was not last minute, if I could I will have ask 18 pple to come so that I will not need you to ask your friends. FOR YOUR INFO, when I had exams last week, I still try my best to organize soccer. WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE TO JUDGE ME?
And YOU DO NOT know the actual incident of “Y” Kesuma did not come. Apparently he had to attend his grandmother funeral. He told me in the morning which I had to accept. I also did not expect his ‘friends’ not to come too. But I did tried to ask them to come.
PLS ALSO FREAKING UNDERSTAND, I am just being sociable when I am with everyone and I just like playing soccer. Whoever comes and play, I will just play with or against them. I just hate ppl who disrupt my soccer plans. That is all!
This incident let me realize that there are 4 kind of people in our soccer clique:
1. Those that promised and do what they promised, like “will come for soccer” and he did come.
2. Those that said they cannot come but when needed they came.
3. Those that helped you when you are in trouble, like when you had 10 pple that day and they help you ask their friends in the last minute.
4. Those that caused you more trouble, like when you have only 9 pple that day and he end up telling you at 12.30pm, “Hi guys, sorry I am not coming anymore. You guys have fun.”
And seriously have you thought about those that have been trying to commit to this weekly soccer event, you are like saying “PLS WAKE UP.” You are like mocking us… saying we have been wasting our time every week.
I guess we all come together is all because of soccer. Soccer is the thing that makes all of us friends or foes. But in the end we still come together. Soccer is like the bond we have with each other. If you think you are just coming for soccer every time because of the game, I just felt that you are so wrong.
And seriously, if you have problems, pls don’t make it sound like we are the ones that have problems. If you have issues… as a friend I seriously don’t mind hearing (but right now, I don’t want to hear. If not, you are 24 years old already pls don’t sound like you are still in secondary school.
And 1 last issue, if you are LATE and TAKE CAB…. Seriously it is due to your own time management issue, don’t make it sound soooooooooooooo Holy can?
Before I end off… pls tell me if I should still call u for the next soccer event, don’t make me waste another sms..
Ops I forget, WHEN IT COMES TO YOU, it will not be A sms BUT A LOT OF SMSes to reply all your “so who are going” sms…
…..
As for the good news, our soccer fund is quite large now.
I suggest we have a max of 5 awards to REWARD those who are committed to the soccer event.
What I have in mind is…
Best Goalkeeper
Best Defender
Best Midfielder
Best Striker
Best Team Player
Most Improve player
Most Sorely Missed Player
A maximum of 5 awards only… cos our fund can only sustain so many award. Pls choose the award that we should have and if you have other suggestion pls state in comments.
Thanks.
Blackburn
(I hope they can get into Uefa Cup.)
As some of you may know, it’s been a long long time since I started organizing soccer.
I thought what happened in the past will never happen again. But it happened.
And it has to be ME to kana this kind of Kangtao.
Haha… and you all must have read the post below. Alas I should have type my post earlier.
Never mind. I guess whatever happen on 20 April 2008 is not really anybody’s fault. (Just being nice here)…
FIRSTLY, LET ME TELL YOU GUYS THE REAL REASON OF GIVING EVERYONE THE CHANCE TO ORGANISE SOCCER.
I BELIEVE IT IS TO LET EVERYONE, LIKE MENDI, HAVE A TASTE OF WHAT ORGANISING SOCCER IS AND HOW HARD IT IS. THEREFORE, EVERYONE WILL HOPEFULLY KEEP THEIR PROMISE IF THEY SAID THEY ARE COMING.
Let me just Clarify the situation with all of you.
I just got the book today as of 20 April 2008. You cannot blame me that I did not take initiative and I just realize there are others that were stated behind.
And I always though Chang Bo is of HQ friends. I have no idea when did he become your friend. And the organizer before me did not tell me anything.
And with regards to the priorities, PLS UNDERSTAND THAT I DID CALL ALL THE PRIMARY PPLE FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For that I understand your feud with MQ, so I did not include MQ and his friends in the Primary pple. They are always my secondary priorities. PLS DO NOT ASSUME!
The problem with being organizer is that you do not know what is the optimum number of soccer players to call. YOU THINK WE ARE A CLUB AR? WHEN CALL UPON, U THINK EVERYONE WILL COME. You just ASSUME THAT I DID NOT DO MY JOB WELL. AS FOR YOUR INFO, I did ask HQ to ask his friends on Saturday. It was not last minute, if I could I will have ask 18 pple to come so that I will not need you to ask your friends. FOR YOUR INFO, when I had exams last week, I still try my best to organize soccer. WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE TO JUDGE ME?
And YOU DO NOT know the actual incident of “Y” Kesuma did not come. Apparently he had to attend his grandmother funeral. He told me in the morning which I had to accept. I also did not expect his ‘friends’ not to come too. But I did tried to ask them to come.
PLS ALSO FREAKING UNDERSTAND, I am just being sociable when I am with everyone and I just like playing soccer. Whoever comes and play, I will just play with or against them. I just hate ppl who disrupt my soccer plans. That is all!
This incident let me realize that there are 4 kind of people in our soccer clique:
1. Those that promised and do what they promised, like “will come for soccer” and he did come.
2. Those that said they cannot come but when needed they came.
3. Those that helped you when you are in trouble, like when you had 10 pple that day and they help you ask their friends in the last minute.
4. Those that caused you more trouble, like when you have only 9 pple that day and he end up telling you at 12.30pm, “Hi guys, sorry I am not coming anymore. You guys have fun.”
And seriously have you thought about those that have been trying to commit to this weekly soccer event, you are like saying “PLS WAKE UP.” You are like mocking us… saying we have been wasting our time every week.
I guess we all come together is all because of soccer. Soccer is the thing that makes all of us friends or foes. But in the end we still come together. Soccer is like the bond we have with each other. If you think you are just coming for soccer every time because of the game, I just felt that you are so wrong.
And seriously, if you have problems, pls don’t make it sound like we are the ones that have problems. If you have issues… as a friend I seriously don’t mind hearing (but right now, I don’t want to hear. If not, you are 24 years old already pls don’t sound like you are still in secondary school.
And 1 last issue, if you are LATE and TAKE CAB…. Seriously it is due to your own time management issue, don’t make it sound soooooooooooooo Holy can?
Before I end off… pls tell me if I should still call u for the next soccer event, don’t make me waste another sms..
Ops I forget, WHEN IT COMES TO YOU, it will not be A sms BUT A LOT OF SMSes to reply all your “so who are going” sms…
…..
As for the good news, our soccer fund is quite large now.
I suggest we have a max of 5 awards to REWARD those who are committed to the soccer event.
What I have in mind is…
Best Goalkeeper
Best Defender
Best Midfielder
Best Striker
Best Team Player
Most Improve player
Most Sorely Missed Player
A maximum of 5 awards only… cos our fund can only sustain so many award. Pls choose the award that we should have and if you have other suggestion pls state in comments.
Thanks.
Blackburn
(I hope they can get into Uefa Cup.)
Sunday Soccer
Hey guys & terence,
I knw my decision to back out from soccer today did not go down well with you all and is a selfish decision which I will never make in the past. But this is how i feel.. I always am committed to come for soccer on sundays (taking cabs on days when i'm late) cos i love the game and also to gather wif you all. However, certain things have changed.. now I go for soccer on sundays purely to play football (no longer view it as a social gathering anymore) and if I feel the session won't work out due to various factors, I really do not want to waste my time under the hot sun.
As to Terence or any other future organisers, given the insistence of calling & giving priority to call some particular pple to come and play.. the probs of today will always exist. By asking pple to call their frens when u realised u dun hav enough pple at the 11th hour certainly do not goes well with the poor peeps who love the game and will like to join on a regular basis. Imagine how they feel when they were always called to come & play only in the last min.. they are like spare tyres..
And i also think what happened today is because you have failed to ask a number of people u could have ask... Try looking at the last page of the old notebook (if it's still around) for the numbers and u will understand.. Do not depend on pple calling their frens but rather u making sure there is enough pple for the game. In this case, you will be in control and always be in control. Relying on other pple to call does not work
It's alrite if u all don't agree on the above as it no longer matters to me anymore.
Thanks
BH
I knw my decision to back out from soccer today did not go down well with you all and is a selfish decision which I will never make in the past. But this is how i feel.. I always am committed to come for soccer on sundays (taking cabs on days when i'm late) cos i love the game and also to gather wif you all. However, certain things have changed.. now I go for soccer on sundays purely to play football (no longer view it as a social gathering anymore) and if I feel the session won't work out due to various factors, I really do not want to waste my time under the hot sun.
As to Terence or any other future organisers, given the insistence of calling & giving priority to call some particular pple to come and play.. the probs of today will always exist. By asking pple to call their frens when u realised u dun hav enough pple at the 11th hour certainly do not goes well with the poor peeps who love the game and will like to join on a regular basis. Imagine how they feel when they were always called to come & play only in the last min.. they are like spare tyres..
And i also think what happened today is because you have failed to ask a number of people u could have ask... Try looking at the last page of the old notebook (if it's still around) for the numbers and u will understand.. Do not depend on pple calling their frens but rather u making sure there is enough pple for the game. In this case, you will be in control and always be in control. Relying on other pple to call does not work
It's alrite if u all don't agree on the above as it no longer matters to me anymore.
Thanks
BH
Sunday, April 06, 2008
YUMMYY CAKE!!
Super expensive cake from the cake shop beside KFC. Was not bad but I prefer choc cake from JAne's CAke Station=))
PS: my bday next! i wish to have ronaldo as my 23rd bday present.. counting down the daysss.. tick tock tick tock..
loves,
amendi
BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO LULU TEH AND HEQUAN...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!
WOW been a loong time since we last had a birthday celebration with a decent cake at GMH huh? Somehow we always rem lulu's bday.. maybe its cos he's such a nice guy.. hhahaha..
As promised, hEre are the pictures. Videos will be up soon but need to censor first. keke. ENJOY!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO LULU TEH AND HEQUAN...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!
WOW been a loong time since we last had a birthday celebration with a decent cake at GMH huh? Somehow we always rem lulu's bday.. maybe its cos he's such a nice guy.. hhahaha..
As promised, hEre are the pictures. Videos will be up soon but need to censor first. keke. ENJOY!
First you S-M-I-L-E/ACT CUTE (like Teh)
Teh looks like the cat from SHREK 2 laa.. was it Puss In Boots? lol!
Then you make a wish and blow the candles..
And then you SMILE (again) and CUT THE CAKE!
Wonder who came up with these steps.
ALVIN to LULU
LULU to HEQUAN
HEQUAN to TEH(my fav of all cards, bollywood inspired! haha)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY GUYS! HOPE ALL UR WISHES FROM LAST YEAR DID COME TRUE AND HOPE YOU ENJOYED THE MINI-CELEBRATION. GMH LOVE YOU GUYS DESPITE THE SIZE OF THE CAKE AND THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE WHO WERE AROUND.
AWWWWWWW......=)))
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