Annyeong Haseyo to all gi meng hock members!!

hi everyone! Guess who am i? i bet you guys don't know haha. Just to let you guys know that i really like being with you guys although im always not around when there is a outing.

Kim

Hope things will change for the better...

Hello everybody!

Now I'm in the office again... will try to complete this post for all Qi Ming Dang members to see...

1stly, Pls add some post as I don't want this to be my blog... haha... It is supposed to be our blog!

2ndly, I heard some very saddening remarks recently. After being in this clique since JC, I realized that I am still not really considered 'friends' by some members. Pardon me pls for putting up this post, cos I just cannot hide my urge to tell everyone how I feel.

Actually, I do realized why some of them will feel this way. Maybe it's because many of us are just not close enough. We may be only close to some individuals, but not everyone. However, pls realize the fact that we are all here to help each other, to assist each other, to improve one another and not just individually. As friends, when anyone is in trouble, I believe that all of us in this clique will jump out to help unconditionally.

On the issue of giving kangtao, I also believe my life will not be so colourful without them. Ti siao may not really be the way to communicate, but it is a very special characteristic of our clique which I think should continue to exist. Life will never be the same without these special stuff.

Here is a few example that state my case...

Pls take a look at Mendi, I personally think if he never ever meet us, he would become a rock statue at his house. (Cos of stoning..)

Take a look at He ge, don't you think we have inject more colours into his previous dull lifestyle... Be it the good or bad...

Take a look at Lulu situation that time, didn't most of us came out and accompany him most of the time...

That's is what I wanted to say...

To those that heard the message and felt angry or sad: Pls do not feel this way, or have the feeling like wanting to 'leave the clique'... We should prove to these people that we will always be here, be it rain or shine... We should try to open up to them and allow them to open up to us...

To those that make those remarks: Pls do not feel angry after reading this... I just want to have my say on this issue... Hopefully this will convince you that we are all your friends...

Lastly, I sincerely hope that this relationship I have with you guys could last forever...

Blackburn

Our 2nd day in taipei!!!

I m right now using the free internet access in the hotel lounge. Quite a few kangtaos for these 2 days.. Firstly we heard some funny noises while we were sleeping. It was quite scary, and we din really sleep the whole nite. Secondly, the flush in our toilet was spoilt. Intially, it was still functioning well and we din noe who the hell was the last one to use the toilet. Perhaps he was not one of us!!!! In order to check what happened to the flushing system, Alvin accidentally broke the toilet bowl.. lolz!!!

The kangtao has not ended yet... Alvin went to the tolilet at the hotel lounge instead. Without knowing, he flooded the toilet bowl with many tissue papers. In taiwan, You cant throw the paper inside the toilet bowl. You muz throw at the dustbin beside it..

That's all for now.. Stay tune for our next kangtao....

Lulu

Taipei is just ahead...

Hi people!!!!!

Dont stop us.... Taipei is just ahead... Kip hui here we come...

Hot spring.... Jiofen... Shilin....

Dont worry about us...

We will always remeber you guys...

Even when we are going there for 5 years.... haha..jk... 5 days..

Take care PPL!!

Blackburn

Bon Voyage...

Hai~ Kangtao la... There is a high chance that mob manning for my unit will be activated this weekend. That means I wun be able to send Lulu n co. off to taiwan. I'm very sorry bout that. The next best alternative will be to write an entry here to wish them Bon Voyage since this is our clique's blog. To those going to Taiwan, do enjoy urself but also be mindful that u're in a foreign land so hav to be wary bout ur own safety. Dun forget to buy lots of goodies back for us as well k. Oh~ Not forgetting to take lots of pics for those of us here who dun hav a chance to go just yet. Although a lil far fetched, do screw a few taiwanese girls if possible. HAhaha!!!!!!!!

A big 'THANK YOU' !

Hi people,

to those that has already answered my question... A big thank you....

to those who just read and have not summit your answers... What are you waiting for?

to those that just type rubbish in the comment box... hm.... pls don't waste your time and my time...

Thank you...

Tomorrow is the 'big' day for me... Taiwan trip... A trip that was planned so long ago.. And yet it was only fulfilled now... Moreover, only three persons are going to this trip... A bit of a disappointment... Maybe it was also my fault... Never really get down to planning the whole trip..
But guys, You all must wait for us... We will shared all our happy memories with you guys when we get back...

Here is a few questions for you to think about (not a survey):

Question 1: When will mendi ever have a post here in our clique's blog?
(Let's not forget he is still our tao.)

Question 2: When will our clique not give kangtao again?
(if Qi Ming Dang don't ever give kangtao again, then pigs can fly.... haha... moreover i am one of the kangtao kia)

Question 3: Y is our clique named Qi Ming Dang?
( I am still waiting for the answer.)

Question 4: Who will be the one to get married first?
(I don't have a GF now.)

Nt to amendi : I put the previous entry here was because this is our clique blog and i hope to get your views.

Nt to all: Waiting for the rest to put up some post, cause i do not wanna read my own post...

Take care. Have to start work soon.

Blackburn

Some help needed...

Hey people,

I am thinking of starting some business.. so here is some question for my own research.

Just answer in the comments box.

Question 1: If you have a message to send, how much will you be willingly to pay someone to send it for you? Erm... not using sms hor... it will be like send it to the person face to face. This message can be any message, like happy birthday, or some congrats words.

Question 2: If you want a present to be included when the message is send to the person, how much more will you pay (additional to the present's cost)? These presents can be chosen from a list provided.

Question 3: If the message is not something that sounds nice, like death in a family, or loved ones are hospitalised or even breakup, how much will you be willingly to pay? This amount should be higher than that of question 1.

Thanks.

NT: To those who still have no idea, Alonso, lulu, blackburn are going taiwan this saturday! We will leave singapore I think around 11pm. We will only be returning on next wednesday.

Terence-Blackburn

The songs says it all...

When you listen to songs, do you listen and try to understand the lyrics?

I do that quite often, and songs sang with great voice and touching lyrics always make me wanna cry...

Here's a few that i think reflects our clique love life;

To Lulu,

曲名：算了 歌手：范逸臣

天哭了 地湿了 我孤单了 人呢
该哭呢 该笑呢 还是该忘了 算了

算一算我也该醒了 不如撤一撤把心掏空吧
谁说的 谁说我该伤心呢

想一想你也该闪了 不如笑一笑通通忘掉它
算了吧 也不用等着你回答
不敢睡 不要醒 怕又痛了 夜里
都懂了 你走了 怎么又乱了呢 乱了

算一算我也该醒了 不如撤一撤把心掏空吧
谁说的 分开就要心碎吗

想一想你也该闪了 不如笑一笑通通忘掉它
算了吧 就当我伤心的太傻

等到 翻到简讯 某一篇
才会发现 你早已经 在那天 让爱情 分裂

算一算我也该醒了 不如撤一撤把心掏空吧
谁说的 分开就要心碎吗

想一想你也该闪了 不如笑一笑通通忘掉它
算了吧 是我伤心的太傻

To psycho;

曲名：放生 歌手：范逸臣

地点是城市某个角落
时间在无言时刻
无聊的人常在这里出没 交换一种寂寞
我静静坐在你的身后
你似乎只想沉默
我猜我们的爱情已到尽头
无话可说 比争吵更折磨 不如就分手
放我一个人生活 请你双手不要再紧握
一个人我至少干净利落
沦落就沦落 爱闯祸就闯祸
我也放你一个人生活
你知道就算继续结果还是没结果
又何苦还要继续迁就
我静静坐在你的身后
你似乎只想沉默
我猜我们的爱情已到尽头
无话可说 比争吵更折磨 不如就分手
放我一个人生活 请你双手不要再紧握
一个人我至少干净利落
沦落就沦落 爱闯祸就闯祸
我也放你一个人生活
你知道就算继续结果还是没结果
就彼此放生留下活口
爱的时候说过的承诺
爱过以后就不要强求
从此分手不必再回头独自生活
曾经孤单加上孤独是软弱
是来过笑过你和我
如今沉默加上折磨更折磨
再没有什么舍不得
放我一个人生活 请你双手不要再紧握
一个人我至少干净利落
沦落就沦落 爱闯祸就闯祸
我也放你一个人生活
你知道就算继续结果还是没结果
就彼此放生留下活口

To Alonso;

曲名：如果爱 歌手：张学友

每个人都想明白
谁是自己生命不该错过的真爱
特别在午夜醒来更是会感慨
心动埋怨还有不能释怀
都是因为你触碰了爱
如果这就是爱
再转身就该勇敢留下来
就算受伤 就算流泪
都是生命里温柔灌溉
哦爱在回忆里总是那么明白
困惑的心流过的泪
还有数不清黑夜等待
如果这就是爱
如果你当时明白
后来的生命里是快乐还是悲哀
特别在夜深人静时想起未来
是否能平静不会想现在
只是因为你拥有了爱
如果这就是爱
再转身就该勇敢留下来
就算受伤 就算流泪
都是生命里温柔灌溉
哦爱在回忆里总是那么明白
困惑的心 流过的泪
还有数不清黑夜等待
如果这就是爱
如果这就是爱

Sorry to those who do not understand this post as it is in chinese...

Blackburn

Mystery Hands

Who's hands?

PS: alonso has been banned in this round cos he was rude in the previous round. the rest of you stand a chance to win a steadip prize! hurryy guess! and leave ya name pls..haha..

amendi

Guess what this is.. first one to answer correctly will get a prize
CLUE: HEAD

amendi

An apology to all…

The title says it all; I am apologizing for my recent posting.

I am sorry if I have hurt, frustrate or made anyone angry with my recent post.

However, like Zidane, I am sorry but I never regret my actions.

PPL, pls understand that this blog is call frankly speaking. So I am just being frank and type as I think… so you can feel that some ideas do not really link…

To anyone who finishes reading that particular post, a big ‘Thank you’ to you again.

Blackburn.

eeerrrrrrr.....hmmm...

Mr Singapore Universe wannabes

check out mendi's 'shirt' n alvin's FHM-worthy pose..swee laaa!

that's all for now.. more to come!

amendi

I sense impending kangtao

Its 0530 sunday morning and i just woke up to get ready for the much anticipated St john trip. the thing about me is that i have a habit of waking up super early if there is an exciting event coming up later in the day.

However, realising that i woke up a bit too early and nothing much to do, i saw amendi's and psycho's comments in this blog.

Time of comment : 0258 hrs & 0327 hrs respectively

U dun need a rocket scientist to figure out the kangtao. We are meeting 8am later.

Praying hard they prove me wrong, if not i'm gonna re-publish my previous entry with font size 38 bold.

Really looking forward to this trip coz no one been there before and we dunno wat to expect. But it couldn't be better timed for psycho to enjoy himself.

Okai gonna meet soff for our mee goreng breakfast liao. If not i will become the one giving him kangtao instead.

St john here comes Qi Ming Dang!!~~~

You'll never walk alone,
alvin

(looking at a few red clouds and thinking aloud to myself: " it better bloody not rain man".)

Deja Vu...

Hi guys... This is my 1st entry in our clique's blog. Hope it ain't too boring coz i'm gonna fill u guys in on my "ordeal". Got into some sort of kangtao lately and it was something similar to the one I had a few years back. A sense of deja vu started kicking in. I probably had one of my worst days in quite a few years yesterday and that served as a reminder of what I would expect in the future if i hadn't put an end to it. Well... A firm decision need to be made sooner rather than later and hell! did I made it. This time round, it took me a few weeks to realise that nothing is gonna work out so I see it as a vast improvement considering the fact that I took more than 1 year the previous time. The mental torment was simply too much to take. Anymore of it would probably drive me crazy and then, I can live up to my not so desired nickname "Psycho". Am I sad??? DEFINITELY!!! Am I proud of myself??? Without a doubt. I managed to let go of something that I hold so dearly to my heart which also in turn has such a detrimental effect on my overall well-being. To all my clique members, brace yourself for the imminent return of the old me. The facade is on again and it's not gonna be broken so easily anymore. Girls out there beware... I'm gonna let u feel the pain. Hahahaha!!!!!!!! Time to unleash the beast again.

to Terence:

wah pianggg u really live up to ya middle name lor.. i was waiting for some ultra meaningful and inspiring entry laa..blehhh..

I guess all of us know we should all 'live life to the fullest'..like we only live once.. dohhh! if slacking and supporting blackburn means 'living life to the fullest' den good for you..go ahead!! ultimately we all define 'living life to the fullest' differently so no need to mian qiang and do social work if u dun find meaning in it tio bo.. do things that make u feel happy and good. if feeling sad makes you feel happy den jolly well feel sad..
sad to say.. but seldom see pple with the PASSION for life and PASSION for the things they do..perhaps we are clouded by societal expectations and are too wary of others' views of us..perhaps we are afraid to take a step out to the unknown and untried..perhaps we just dun wanna get hurt (anymore)..however i firmly believe that in each and every single one of us there lies an unknown and undisclosed self that is able to handle all adversities that come our way..we just have to have that weeeeeee bit more faith in ourselves, in humanity and in LOVE!!

aiya lazy to think liaoo.. go BATHE liaoo.. yayy!! terence gonna strike lottery lo!

The road to the ugly world...

Today, I went to watch 'the road to guantanamo' with Alvin and lulu. Its abt 4 guys who went to Afghanistan pre-Sep 11. I personally will recommend this film and to those that are still reading this post... I am sorry that I never mention that this film is a documentary, thus some people may find it abit 'kangtao'.

If you think that I will go on and talk about the film, U R super wrong... U want to know more about the movie... Go and watch lah...

A note to those with safra card: It is now $8 at GV if you show them your card on weekends.

So with this special discount... GO and WATCH HOR! While the film is still around...

This is just the beginning of my post, pls continue... (thank you for reading till here)

In my life, I thought I have already had some of the worst punishment during army...
"Everything out in 3 mins"; "Everything in in 1 min"; "Down 180...Now!";
"Run to the trunk and back...QUICK!"

This is just the preview of some light punishment... I do not really want to talk about the heavy ones... It still sting talking about these stuff...

However, after watching the film, I realize what I have gone throught was nothing compared to the innocent people still trapped within the prison... I think I may just lose if I ever happen to be in one of the guy's situation... I am just feel so blessed right now.

So back to my post... Y ugly world?

Watching this kind of documentary films, make me feel so naive about what is happening around the world... Like that film by Michael Moore... or even this one that I just watched... Thus, Ugly world is just the only conclusion I could come up with. Pls remember WE (u and me) all are walking down this same road... U never know what is going to happen tomorrow, because tomorrow we may have just reach our destination of the ugly world and not being able to turn back...

So an advice to myself and you... Live life to the fullest each day...

This is so ironic... Here I am telling you this... But I just feel like slacking after making this post...

Have a laugh now.. Have a kit kat....

HAHAHA... okok...stop... eat your kit kat...

Then again, another advice to those still hurt from break-ups: Pls lah... You must be strong... if not when you get caught, how are you going to endure through?

Do you really need to be that hurt... Remember: live life to the fullest...
Live the amendi's way... SOCIAL WORK HERE I COME....

No lah... I am only ti siaoing... Dun be so serious... have a break... But no kit kat... if not u will get fat...

To conclude, I am still me... I hope to win 4D later or toto on Monday or big sweep on 19th...

Slack is my middle name... Blackburn is my nick... Naggy is my character...

So I am a naggy Mr Terence-slack-Blackburn

Thank you for reading... Go and have your break now...

The Cage

The day at 'the cage'

Everyone who went (except MIA Karthi)

The Golden Boot winner

3rd place

2nd place

The winning team

On my way to work...

Hi everyone, now I am at my office, gonna start work at 8.30am... So here's a quick post!

1stly - Congrats to Kati! I think we all should attend the play even if some of us don't understand - like our favourite tao (hope its not too expensive)...

2ndly - Congrats to lulu!! You seem to have been 'the one that's hurt' to 'the one giving advice'... Good for you!! But hor... Dont publish my kangtao if i ever tell you...haha...

Then on my way to work, I heard about Zidane and his head-butt incident. I think its the 500th time i hearing this. The only conclusion i can come up with is 'Maybe there is a miscommunication between the two players'... after all one is a french player and the other is a ltalian... they speak different languages...right?

Lastly - To anyone who's wondering who the hell is Qi Ming Dang.
Qi Ming Dang is my clique's nick. I have no idea about how this name come about, this is because I am not one of the veteran in this clique. Thus i am gonna leave it to the veteran to explain.

Okay... have to start work!

That's all.

Mr naggy-Blackburn Terence

Kati's back with a BANG!!

From our dearest Kati who has been MIA...

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To psycho..

You haf chosen this path, which is not going to be a smooth wan. Obstacles are lying in front of u, that can only be overcomed with great determination. Your parents won't be there for you. Friends can only motivate & guide u along the way. Ultimately it depends on u, whether u haf the preserverance to achieve ur goals or not.

Forgive mi for 2 things. Firstly, I dun see any future in both of u. Both of u differ so much in terms of characters, background and qualification. You haf to ask urself, are u happy when u are with her..Is she the one for you..Is she willing to embark on this tough journey and share all burdens wif u.. perhaps she is willing to do so now, but who noes she may change her mind one day. You are juz following ur heart but not ur mind. I understand how u feel coz i may do the same thing if she really comes back to mi. Since u chose to gif her another chance, i haf got nthing to say but sincerely prayed that u won't get hurt again.

Secondly, I dun think u shd really go back to study. Studying seems a chore to you, as far as i noe. Till now, i still feel that she is the driving force that motivates you to go back to school. I can't imagine what will happen if she leaves u.

My sincere apologies for any offence made. But i really hope you can prove mi wrong coz I dun wana see u sink into depression and back to square again.

lulu

To Kinmeng..

I noe you are still hurt. But calling and messaging her won't alleviate the pain inside you. You haf to cast away ur selfish cravings in u and let her lead her own life. She needs experiences to grow up, though it may be too late by the time she really learns. This is life. All of us need to go through different phases b4 we become mature, and noe that certain things are beyond our control.

I'm so sorry that it happened but there are alot of things that u need to learn from this unfortunate episode. Both of us need to change to become a better boyfriend in the future.

I am glad that you have found ur interests that can take ur mind off things. I m still searching for it. Stay strong, for the sake of ur family, and friends who still care abt u. Like what Alvin always says, you will never walk alone..

" The greatest glory lies not in never falling, but is in rising after every fall."

lulu

To Everyone who still wakes up feeling hurt....

After reading lulu post,
My 1st thought was 'LULU, Dont change lah!'
We all knows how good u r and its true maybe we(all of us that were hurt once) should go with the flow and give other ppl kangtao....but WTF!!!!
At least i feel that most of us cannot do it.
I tried and i failed.
Becos i know if i go with the flow, i will still not be happy.

So let just be ourselves... if anyone from qi ming tang feels down, just remember the rest of our members are still there. I believe we will still be able to di siao with each other even when we are in our 50s'.

So stay happy be yourself.....life still goes on!!

Mr naggy-Blackburn-kangtao-kia Terence

Food for Thought

Hi guys, glad that the blog i started is picking up. But still a long way to go till the expected 500 hits, but i’m sure its juz a matter of time.

Stumbled upon the word “life expectancy” while flipping through time magazine that day, and figured something out.

Hope it interests u.

Did some research before coming to this startling fact:

Average singaporean life expectancy : 80 years

Age now : 22 years

Years left: 80 – 22 = 57 years

Time spent sleeping: 8 hrs a day = 19 years

Time spent travelling: 1.5 hrs a day = 3.5 years

Time spent in a lift or waiting = 0.5 years

Time spent in the toilet: 45 mins a day = 2.3 years

Time spent in a traffic jam: 1 year

Time spent waiting for retards: 0.5 year

The activities above I classify as something which just eats ur life away as it has zero productivity. Yet we have to experience it whether we like it or not.

So the amazing final figure i calculated as to how many years we have left to really live is an astounding:

57-19-3.5-0.5-2.3-1 = Roughly 30 years!!

Considering the past 22 years i have already lived was a blur and it flew by like 5 mins, i am proud to announce that i have only another 6 mins or so left before i can finally go to a place somewhere over the rainbow!!~~

Which brings me to another point, just waiting for some bloody latecomer for 10 mins a day will eat away 6 months of ur life. ( are u reading this assholes? U know who u are...)

Bottom line is, before u know it, u are gonna kick the bucket real soon....

You’ll never walk alone,
alvin

KONG TOU SAO!!

I am tired.. God noes when this is gg to stop, but i noe it wont be that soon, or perhaps that day will nv arrive. I always wake up in the middle of the nite. My heart hurts, like needles piercing through it.. The feeling is torturing, but i have to endure it. I tried to occupy myself wif other stuff, but to no avail. She is always on my mind.. I smoke compulsively, hoping to reduce the agony inside me. I started to feel pain on my chest, and I noe this is a sign for mi to quit.. But I realize I cant.

She is young and immature, and wants to haf fun. She needs a lot of care and attention from mi. Unfortunately, I din meet her expectation. I dun blame her for leaving mi coz I was at fault too, and she is young to understand certain things. But I am utterly disappointed when she pushed all the blame to me.

Last Saturday, I went to haf dinner wif my uni friends. They planned to watch soccer after that. I din follow, coz she was there. Instead I went to clark quay alone, drinking by the riverside. That is the place where we celebrated our 3th mth anniversary. It has been a long time since I shed tears, as i reminisced the good old days we had together.

It’s a fact that we can nv be together. I am confuse, coz I dun noe if I am still waiting. Alvin is right. I need to throw throw morals and righteousness out of the window and go with the flow. But I noe my character too well.

To all my buddies, i am blessed to have you guys in my life. You all are there for mi when I’m in trouble. I will stay strong, coz I haf too much things to do in life. I am so sorry that I neglected you all during my school term. I will make it a point to spend more time wif u all in the future.

Lulu

my obsession with cutiessssss!! haha

my beloved M2M partner.. he only acts cute with me!

my darlingggsss!

ahh...life's great!!

we should recruit them to our soccer team..they are freaking good!