Hi all,
How long can you hope a friend can change?
For me or even us (as in our clique), that is a long long time.
For me, its been at least a few years.
Clique members, I believe you do know who I am talking about.
Let me tell ya what he said to me in MSN:
“I will take 147 at 10am then when reaching your house bus stop then I’ll call you.”
In the end, its 12.30pm and I am still alone in school studying.
Called him and he never pick up the phone. Must be sleeping or bathing.
Anyway, he told me something on MSN that day:
“I have bought a new bag.”
And also something about “Handsome and Sexy”…
Like I said that time dude…
New bag + New Hairstyle + Getting Fitter + Old Character will not make you “handsome and sexy”.
I guess there is always a limit to how much one can hope for.
Another word of advice,
“Dude, your brains are not located at your chest level or your biceps. If only you put those efforts on your studies right now.”
A “Hopeless” Blackburn
7 comments:
*applause*
if you care about your friend, tell him off directly. if he treats his brudders like this, then its not as bad, but when he grows up and treats his clients, his gal this way, being a man who does not keep his word, he is truly deficient.
if he doesn't accept the advice, cut him off. what is the point of frens when you don't listen to one another?
some improvement will indicate effort at change, but none at all may mean that despite hearing you out, he doesn't really care about anyone but himself.
but first, speak to him. no hints, no messengers, just direct. because if you care about him as a fren, you will do that.
Agreed with avalon (whoever u r)
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you mean you are not dead yet? why?
amendi
well said talen lol.
physical appearance and style isnt everything but staying fit is good for health.
Older girls do look out more for money, talent, stability and career. And u probably wouldnt want a girl who jus looks out for physical appearance.
Mr Teh
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