If you are my friend, please read...

Hi,

It has been a long time since I blog. This is a post dedicated to my friends, including GMH members, SMU friends, Army friends...

I know I have not been joining you guys on any of the activities these few months. Yes… I have turn everyone off by rejecting all your invitations lately (Not only GMH members, even my Uni friends and my army friends).

Before I start, just want to tell you, YES, for all the facebook comments, I am ATTACHED.

But it is not the main reason why I have not been able to make time for any of you, my friends.

I am also working very hard at work. Have been working most of my Saturdays. BUT it is definitely NOT about climbing up the corporate ladder. Seriously, in my department, I don’t see a ladder. There are only 3 steps. And if the people ahead of me do not shift, I am stuck. However, the reason I work so hard is because I want to learn more and that I want to be responsible to what I am doing. You know, I even ask for projects. And furthermore, in Ops, my growth is limited so I need to initiate to be able to learn more. No doubt this adds to my stress level at times. But at least, I feel like I am using my brains.

And if you know me, I’ve got many other problems too (things I cannot say here). For this, it’s the MOST STRESSFUL. But there is nothing much I can do other than pray or find ways to earn more.

Nevertheless, the good news is that I am attached. And for most of my free time, I am spending my time with her. Haha. And since it is in the initial stage, I don’t think I should bring her to meet my friends yet. So please be patient and don’t ask anything more.

All in all, thanks for your care and concern.

As for facebook, I am keeping it as complicated cause I want our relationship to be profession when we are at work. We want to keep it private and not let any of our colleagues knows. Nevertheless, some of them have already guessed it. But still, if you are my colleague and you know already, pls shut up/keep quiet about it.

That’s all I am saying. My friends, I really do want to meet you but time does not permit me to do it. I am working hard for my life and for her. So I just hope for your blessing and understanding.

Thanks in advance.

Blackburn