Hi all,
Movies always comes in a trilogy, so is my story.
“… At lunch time one day, he and she went shopping for some clothing. She found a top that she like but has none of her size.
He decided to help her find this top. He went to bugis then to orchard. At last after a few places, he found one which has her size.
He wants to give her this top as a parting gift for her.
On the second last day, she felt uneasy as she felt most of his attention was on her. Finally, she opened her mouth, ‘erm… thanks for the help… I know you have been really helpful towards me when I am working her, but it’s sometimes too much and I cannot concentrate.’ This is definitely a big blow towards him. To her, he was just being helpful. But for him, he was never really this helpful to anyone, he really like her.
Still after that blow, he still decides to give her the gift at the last day. With it, were a card and a letter. The letter actually states most of his feelings. He hope after she read through the letter, she will actually understand his feelings.
….
That night, he dreamt of an angel falling from the sky…
…..
After that last day, she still did not get back to him.
….
The End…”
Sorry if my story does not really flow and I never really explain y she was an angel, I’m sorry.…. And this story is not entirely fictional.
Love will never be easy, and if you give, you may not get back as well.
Blackburn
5 comments:
I believe when she said "helpful" she actually did knw tat u are interested in her.. hence.. well.. gd luck anyway! :p
p/s: perhaps u r a little bit too anxious and aggressive and sometimes will force pple to withdraw.. My 2 cents worth! (",)
I'm sure she knows and I think you did the right thing with the gift and letter. Brace yourself for whatever happens next. Keep in mind the last line of your post.
I agree with crissy ronaldo, sometimes being too nice may just make her feel uncomfortable. It's not about being nice, it's about knowing her, and what she wants.
Some girls like their guys to always be around them so that when they whine they get all the help they need (no offense meant).
Some girls, like her, if you observe - I think she is the more independent type. Independent in the sense that she will give her best in whatever is required of her, and if she makes a boo-boo or something happens that is out of her control (like if there are no sweets when she has a sore throat), I believe she is the type that will deal with it or get it herself if she really needs the sweet. Dunno if I'm right la, just what I observe lo.
It is still true though, that most girls will still want a guy to be their 'hero', but the threshold for every girl is different.
So my point is, I still think that both of you haven't known each other long enough. It probably sounds very anti-climax in the midst of your surging feelings but the emphasis on building a strong frendship foundation in any relationship cannot be stressed enough.
If it is any consolation that she did not respond (or maybe 'yet') after yesterday, be glad that your choice of girl is not the type to rush into relationships but a wise one who is level-headed to know what she wants and when - if that's her stand.
Whatever it is, as long as you were enriched by this experience, it will make the next (if not this) better.
Talk more again ya. Take care lei.
ah jul
Haha.. thanks Jul for your comments..
Anyway.. this ending is just a prediction... haha... Nothing is of any truth in the ending... Will update further...
But Jul.. erm.. i understand she is that type of girl lah... and not the "other" type.. haha.. i agree with you.
Anyway... i am taking it easy... I still wanna her as a friend.
Thanks.
Blackburn
Good luck。 流星短暂却灿烂辉煌,你跟她相处的时间何尝不是。
郑老师,Mr. Teh
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